(I’ve known of this dilemma since I was a teenager and learned about Dr. King’s nonviolence, which aims to respect the humanity of the other while being ruthlessly outspoken and militant in confronting their behavior. I realized that, The Director had put all this clinical power on display when he dismissed the woman he violated as “borderline.” Seen through the label, she wasn’t acting on the side of truth when she spoke up and got him to lose his license, she was exposing a symptom of her personality disorder. Raping our children destroys our society, and will destroy humanity. This dilemma shouldn’t hold us back; I had to find a way to challenge his misconduct and the school’s protection of it, and at the same time not just flip it around and make him and the school in a sense a new victim — now with me as the accusing perpetrator. Currently Los Angeles based.Need some merch? Rape is a crime. (Dragon*****), Seeing the new Flames of War I rulebook really makes me want to play Flames of War again (Jfai****), Got me a shiny new 3rd edition Flames Of War rulebook today. Gandhi unfortunately didn’t know what he was talking about when he said, “Be the change.” Because he never said it. The same applies to psych workers. In the case Will talked about it wasn’t just the inappropriate sex. The present is a super-humid day, cleaning up while listening to Wall of Voodoo as loud as the speakers will go and feeling pretty good. For me, I took flight and said or shared rarely with the sole exception of other women i trusted to just listen and honor the horrible abuses I experienced several years ago. Suddenly, just as I was getting my own career going as a counselor, I was grappling with unethical behavior by the Director of the very institution I was affiliated with and had invested many years of my life contributing to. The reason he remained in prison for so long is that he courageously REFUSED to renounced armed struggle as a condition of release. Prostitutes are the “victims” in these relationships and should never be criminalized for their behavior. I also understand why Steve played devil’s advocate and I follow his logic, but I am with Oldhead that it’s time for real change, and people in positions of authority like teachers such as yourself are on the front lines of that change. And now when I considered speaking up to the school administration about my grade, I was again paralyzed with shame: I feared that the act of speaking up for what’s right would expose me, bring shame down on me, I’d be seen as selfish. I have friends who choose to remain in the System. It is one thing (a very important thing) to see how our thinking and behavior has been influenced, and at times, corrupted by a very oppressive and pervasive system, and yes, we need to criticize it when it happens. Follow You Lyrics: My head is haunting me and my heart feels like a ghost / I need to feel something, 'cause I'm still so far from home / Cross your heart and hope to die / Promise me you'll never Anyway hopefully you will now recognize this a blind spot you were unaware of; it’s understandable, given the massive effort by the Fraternal Order of Police and many others to suppress the truth, but hopefully now you will realize you have been duped along with many others in the U.S. I’d been under the impression that you are Canadian, so expected that you would be more informed about this, as are most people outside the U.S. Am I wrong about this? I should have done something more. Most people seek redemption through private acts to protect themselves from criticism. One is not contingent upon the other, and those who continually pose them in opposition do themselves and the movement a disservice. I responded in the hurt and powerless manner shame had taught me throughout my life: I became invisible, quiet, small. That’s just human nature. Antipsychotics for Psychosis, Bipolar & More, Now Patients Can Specify Their Care Before Hallucinations Overwhelm, Integrating Indigenous Healing Practices and Psychotherapy for Global Mental Health, Outside Mental Health: Voices and Visions of Madness, Harm Reduction Guide to Coming Off Psychiatric Medication, Pharmaceutical Industry Payments Influence Physician Prescribing Decisions, Study Finds, Pharma Spent $6 Billion on Lobbying Politicians in the Last 20 Years. Btw the part in italics was not at all directed at you personally or specifically — it’s something I just finally put my finger on and managed to articulate a little better. Kindredspirit – I’m just surprised that there is no moderator here – to edit or delete openly hostile posts. Time will tell. No doubt some will say their actual feelings are secondary, it’s the fact that the “rule book” wasn’t followed, but in other circumstances isn’t such an attitude considered “paternalistic”? Blow the smoke right through the window." Will made the following statements: ” …we all have shadows, we all have blind spots, we are all in this complicity and corruption together.” “… “our side” that is also part of the problem, that we are dangerously also part of “the system.” ”. (Neal_D*****), Tomorrow the grand opening celebration continues with warmachine/hordes, flames of war, and warhammer 40k/fantasy. Corruption spreads out from the actual violations like concentric pools of blood, leaving stained hands to the very heights of society. No, you fail to understand me and your statement is very dismissive of my views. 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